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hi there, this is me, the owner, CADEN YAP a.k.a the singapore no.1 bastard
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Tuesday, April 03, 2007 2:58 AM
have you ever wonder why is there steads on this earth? just because people are desperate for love? and why are they desperate for love and wanting someone to love them so as to satisfy their heart? the reason is because all of us have a heart that must be filled with love. for those who got family love, congrats. but for those who do not have the chance of experiencing it, don't be sad as there's a place in town where you are always welcomed! when people do not find the love they needed from the family, they will turn to opposite sex for STEADS. but often these relationships don't last long and it ended up hurting people. making used of another party to satisfy your heart is the most common among young, childish relationships.
let me be frank. relationships are there not to satisfy each other's needs. but to be there when another party is in trouble. sometimes there might be feeling of being alone, but that doesnt mean that you are lonely. if you can remember how your stead looks like even if you close your eyes, you really treat him/her as someone important. you are seen even when you are not seen. dreams, imaginations, thoughts, visions will come true if you are ready to wait for it to happen. so what you keep chasing after your dreamS? turn around and you might be able to find the answer to your question.

turn your back and you might find someone unexpected to be there ALWAYS with you. because that someone promised to be happy, to be smiling. you can give without sacrificing, but you cannot sacrifice without giving. i want to sacrifice for you, because i love you.
  • i refused to be ignored.
even if you didn't get the answer that you wanted in your heart, keep waiting. because one day, you will get it!
  • i refused to be left out
zealous instead of jealous. quit comparing, but work hard to get what you wanted. we all have equal opportunities to get what we want, but is whether we want to treasure these opportunities.
  • i refused to be offended
so what people's words hurt you directly? what are you going to do with the feelings? is it more important to avenge for what that person had done to you or is more important to think of why did that person said something hurtful? whether is it true, etc. be radical!